Pro-War or Pacifist?
You know, I'm not pro-war. Actually, I don't know anybody who is pro-war. Only a nut would be pro-war. I would say Osama bin Laden and his ilk are pro-war.
I'm not a pacifist either. Sure, I can respect honest pacifists, although I don't agree with them. Pacifism is one of those philosophies like socialism, anarchism, libertarianism or laissez-faire capitalism. It sounds good in theory, but simply doesn't work in a fallen, real world with imperfect, sinful people.
If you could put a label on what I believe, that would be pro-defense (a term that Lynn Sislo coined a few months ago). I believe in the right to self-defense and the right to defend others (your family, friends, strangers or your country). If someone wants to be a pacifist for themselves, that's fine. But don't try to impose your pacifism on me. I won't stand for it, any more than I'd stand for someone trying to force me to live by their pro-war philosophy.

You said that you have not met anyone pro war...well you just did...me.