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Monday, July 19, 2004

Horrible

That's the only word I can think of to describe this article. It's a woman coldly describing why she decided to abort two of the triplets she was carrying. Basically, she didn't want to have to move to the suburbs and buy large jars of mayonnaise. Also, she might have had to slow down her career a bit and put some tiny human beings first in her life. (Link first seen over at Peppermint Patty's. Michelle Malkin has some more commentary on this.)

Way back when I used to be "pro-choice but personally opposed to abortion," I read an article similar in tone to this one. The article was supposed to show me how much better it is now that abortion is "safe and legal". However, it had the opposite effect on me. It made me question my beliefs on this issue. It took a year or two, but I gradually became pro-life.

The article was in Ms. Magazine. This was in the late 80s and I was going to college. One day, walking from one of my classes, there was a table of magazines free for the taking. So, thinking of myself as kind of a feminist, I picked up a Ms. Magazine. I remember that it had Cher on the cover.

I had read copies of Ms. before. I would always forget how strange and whacked-out the content was in between its polished and mainstream-looking covers. Even then, I was turned off by radical feminism, even though I thought of myself as a feminist.

Anyway, this particular issue had an article about "the bad old days" before abortion was legal. The article consisted of the personal stories of several women who had illegal abortions. I don't remember any of the stories making me think, "Yeah, it's a good thing it's legal now," although that was my opinion back then. And one story in particular horrified me.

This was the story of a woman who had gotten pregnant while a college student. Her boyfriend offered to marry her, but she didn't want to get married. She wanted to finish school and start a career. I think she was about five months along when she went to an abortionist. I can't remember the particulars, but he did something that would later cause her to give birth to her dead baby.

So that's what happened when she was alone in her dorm room later. After doing so, do you know what her main concern was? Getting rid of the body. And do you know what she did?

She flushed the baby down the toilet.

That's right she flushed her child down the toilet as if it were excrement. And there was no acknowledgment from her that the baby was anything more than excrement. And do you know what her main worry was?

That the baby would stop up the toilet and she would get caught.

She also said that her health was very bad after having the abortion because she lost a lot of blood. My reaction to that was, "Who cares! You flushed your baby down the toilet!"

This woman was just so completely self-absorbed, I lost all compassion for her. She flushed her dead baby down the toilet like it was nothing, and had no remorse. And for what? For a career? What is a career compared to a human being?

So, that is what turned me towards becoming pro-life again. (Yes, I was pro-life when I first found out what an abortion was, when I was around eleven or twelve. As a teenager I talked myself into being "pro-choice but personally opposed".) Thank you, Ms. Magazine, for getting me to see the light.

Comments

Sorta my path too, but I was older when I became pro-life. I used to think it was the lesser of two evils, that women needed the option, but it got so hard to justify the needs of one who has life being able to take the life of another simply because they didn't want him/her

Posted on July 19, 2004 at 5:52 AM

Hi Patty,

I think the reason why I talked myself into being pro-choice is that I had known a couple of people who had abortions. I guess I wanted to be "supportive" and "non-judgmental" of them. But I was denying my true, deep-down feelings on this issue.

I was reading up on Amy Richards over at Michelle Malkin's site and it turns out that she's not only a radical feminist but also a contributing editor to Ms. How surprising...not.

I think a lot of people who think of themselves as pro-choice will eventually become pro-life because of this article. These pro-abortion militants are so wrapped up in their bubble that they don't understand how things like that article sound to normal people. So, I say, let the Amy Richards and the baby-flushers of the world keep bragging about their "choices". When they do that, they alienate people from their cause and make more people pro-life.

Posted on July 19, 2004 at 9:42 AM

Susan,
I too used to confess to a pro-choice viewpoint. My path away from that was slightly different, however, my path away from liberalism was definitely given a kick in the pants from the first time I picked up a Mother Jones magazine, and wondering "do liberals really believe this crap?". Made me wonder if I was really a liberal. Over a couple of years, I realized I wasn't. One of the attributes in Psalm 15 that God appreciates; those who speak the truth in their heart.

Posted on July 19, 2004 at 10:37 PM

And as another Psalms says,

"For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place. When I was woven together in the depths of the earth, your eyes saw my unformed body. All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be."

That was read for the dedication of our family's latest addition.

No matter what anyone says, every conception is a human life. Start there, and public policy and and private practice must follow...

Posted on July 20, 2004 at 12:08 PM

Hi Joel,

I agree...in the deepest part of our hearts, we know the truth. We get distracted from it because of worldly concerns.

Hi Dave,

You have a beautiful family! :-) And that Psalm makes it undeniably clear that human life begins a conception.

Posted on July 21, 2004 at 9:25 AM



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