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Wednesday, October 13, 2004

Vile Bigotry

A couple of posts ago, I mentioned a song by Steve Taylor called "Baby Doe". The song is about a true story -- a baby with Down Syndrome was allowed by his parents and doctors to starve to death. A have some personal feelings about those with Down Syndrome, so let me share those with you before I launch into the point of this post.

My Mom's youngest sister had Down Syndrome. This Aunt died at the age of 49 more than ten years ago. I remember when I was a kid we used to visit my Mom's family. During those visits, my Aunt and I would play with dolls together. She was much better off than a cousin on my Dad's side of the family. He was the son of one of my Dad's sisters. He was so profoundly retarded that he could not speak. When they would come and visit us, I remember trying to teach him to count and to talk. I thought it would be wonderful if I could teach him to speak. He died several years ago as well, and my Dad's sister took care of him all his life.

I got my first taste of bigotry against Down Syndrome people when I went to a slumber party when I was twelve. We were going to go to church the next morning with the girl who was hosting the party. I remember there was a discussion of how we would all get there. The church had a bus, but that idea was nixed because, as one of the girls at the party put it, "All those retarded people ride the bus!" I told them that it was no big deal, because I had people in my family who were retarded. This only caused this same girl to make fun of me..."Ewwww! You have retarded people in your family...and you admit it?"

The thing is, Down Syndrome people don't have a mean bone in their bodies. Outside of my family, I have met several and I've found this to be true in every case. While they may not have the mental and physical abilities of the rest of us, they have it over us when it comes to goodness. They certainly don't deserve to be reviled the way they are.

So, what am I leading up to here? This:

bigoted-dem-flyer.jpg

I first saw this in this Michelle Malkin post. Apparently, it's from a flyer that Democrats in Tennessee are distributing. This is a disgrace...it is hateful, vile and disgusting. You can't get much lower than ridiculing disabled people to make a cheap political point.

Unfortunately, this is nothing new, coming from liberals. After all, didn't Al Gore once refer to "extra-chromosome" conservatives? And then, there's that shallow hack Maureen Dowd, who is also fond of calling pro-life people "extra-chromosome" conservatives. (Link via Michelle Malkin.) The American Spectator piece has this to say:

Dowd's thoughtless reference to "extra-chromosome conservatives" as a way of describing pro-lifers carries a further heartless edge. Down Syndrome children are increasingly the target of abortion by parents who refuse to countenance the addition of such a child to their families. Sometimes, pro-lifers are the only advocates these vulnerable children have.

Indeed. From what I understand, there are very few Down Syndrome babies being born anymore...most are aborted.

I know not all Democrats and liberals approve of this kind of thing. In fact, I hope that a majority do not. I would like to see those who don't approve denounce this sort of bigotry and distance themselves from it.

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Comments

I work with developmentally disabled adults and this flyer (along with the hypocrisy of the supposedly tolerant, compassionate liberls who distributed it) disgusted me beyond polite words. It's very difficult to describe my feelings about it in non-vulgar terms.

Posted on October 14, 2004 at 1:23 AM
Peter Gravatar.com

While I don't have your close personal experience with Down's people I dealt with several in my job as a deputy sheriff, we had a group home in my patrol district. My dealings with them were as victims of crime or, sometimes, getting lost. In the years I worked around them I never once saw a Down's person act with malice toward another person. My substation more or less 'adopted' that group home, we'd arrange Christmas and Halloween parties and suchlike. One of the things that struck us was the absolute joy displayed when we'd show up with our kids or our pets. And the gentleness and love those kids and pets got.
This flier is way beyond the bounds of human decency. Despicable.

Posted on October 14, 2004 at 3:20 AM
Allen Glosson Gravatar.com

My daughter has Down Syndrome. Early on in her life, with the surgeries and other complications, I wondered why God had cursed me with such struggles and why he so heartlessly imposed this burden on me.

I was so immature then.

My daughter has taught me the one thing I had been missing all my life -- unconditional love. Her love pours out of her -- there is no way she can contain it all. It's a gift she freely offers to anybody she gets to know, even in the slightest. She touches so many lives so positively that I can't even begin to count them all.

God has truly blessed me -- he knew what I needed more than I did and it wasn't until he gave me the precious gift of my daughter that I could truly see it. I weep for those those who see such children as a blight instead of a blessing. They do not know the joy that such a life can bring.

Posted on October 14, 2004 at 9:25 AM
Anthony Gravatar.com

When I was growing up, my mom owned an ice cream store. Everyday, there was this guy who would come in, order the same thing. He had a mental disability, not Downs though. Nicest guy you could imagine -- not a nasty bone in his body.

He worked in the church near the store, doing all the silly little jobs no one else wanted to do (body wise, he was big and strong). And he was so proud of it.

That is why I get so angry when I see things like this.

One funny story -- for some reason, we though his name was Bill. So for a year, we kept calling him Bill. One day his Mom came into the store with him. After five minutes she asked why we were calling him Bill. We looked at him and asked why he had never told us it was not his name. He said that he did not want to put us through any trouble.

We all had a laugh about it.

Posted on October 14, 2004 at 2:04 PM

This is without a doubt the lowest form of cesspool politics I have ever witnessed. Every time I think the democrates can't sink any lower into their own pool of puke and vile they always seem to come up with something ever more disgusting and perverted. I suppose the sorry s.o.b that dreamed this one up is real proud of himself. And these are the kind of people half the country want to run it?...Geez...

Posted on October 14, 2004 at 2:56 PM
Price Smith Gravatar.com

I've read about your relatives. None of my relatives had any of these "problems", their troubles were generally self-inflicted & much worse. The town I grew up in build a special school to help all kinds of kids with special needs.(among them Down Syndrome) These kids rode the "short school bus" and could've been the object of all kinds of bigotry.

Execpt that wasn't allowed where I lived. Adults, both parents and complete strangers would correct any comments children made that were out of line.
A couple times each school year each elemarty class made field trips to 'Faith 7'(named in the spirit of the Gemini program which NASA was doing when the school was built)
We spent the day in various activities with kids we didn't know. We left as friends.

These guys were a part of the community.

I can't even tell you how terrible I think the action of these democrates are.

Posted on October 14, 2004 at 3:29 PM
duffa Gravatar.com

[Hey "duffa"...I have deleted your comment since I don't allow abusive comments to myself or other commenters. I like things to be civil, but you probably don't grasp the concept of civility, since you think it's "politically correct" to object to ridiculing Down Syndrome people. Oh, yeah...you're banned too. Now you get a life! -Ed.]

Posted on October 14, 2004 at 6:35 PM
MyssiAnn Gravatar.com

I was so offended by this poster that I when I voted early today, I voted a straight Republican ticket today for the first time in my voting life. (I am an Independent.) I voted against my current TN State House Representative. He is a fairly clear-thinking democrat and a good man and he got my vote last time and if he runs as an independent next time, he'll get it again. I could not get around the fact that if I voted for him today, I was supporting this kind of bigotry within his party. My conscience simply would not let me vote for any democrat: some things in our lives ought to be taboo in politics and this is one of them.

Posted on October 14, 2004 at 7:41 PM

Thank you to everyone who has commented here so far (with the exception of "duffa"). Thank you for sharing your own beautiful stories and for speaking out against that disgusting flyer. I'm overwhelmed by the links and hits this post has generated. I wasn't even sure if this post came out right when I posted it. I'm glad that it helped in some small way to make the point that bigotry against Down Syndrome people is not something to be tolerated.

Posted on October 14, 2004 at 9:45 PM
Wendi Gravatar.com

Thanks for a great blog.
Our daughter is profoundly retarded. She cannot speak, does not recognize letters or numbers, cannot run or ride a bike.
There are worst things my daughter could be than retarded, as despicable remarks like Al Gore's labeling people he disagreed with as having an 'extra chromosome' and heineous ads like this demonstrate.

Posted on October 15, 2004 at 1:54 AM

Great commentary on this issue that is being ignored by the MSM. So great I linked to it on my site.

Posted on October 15, 2004 at 9:16 AM
Anonymous Gravatar.com

God bless you, Peter.

Posted on October 15, 2004 at 11:25 AM

Wendi, thank you!

Commando, thanks for the link!

Posted on October 15, 2004 at 7:41 PM

I have been thinking about this since I forst saw it
in Michelle Malkin's site As much as it pains me, I have come to the conclusion that the eugenicists in the Democratic Party have gained so much control they think nothing of making such vile comments about a group they think nothing of aborting. It is obvious that somebody thought they could make this poster with impunity. According to the story it had been in distribution for two weeks before the story broke. I honestly don't know what disgusts me more, the existance of the poster, or the fact that a number of people thought this sort of thing is acceptable in human discourse.

Posted on October 16, 2004 at 7:51 AM
Eden Gravatar.com

My daughter has Down Syndrome and when I first saw that poster I was just sick that a person in a public office could be so truly horrible and insensitive. Beyond belief! I emailed him, but as of yet haven't heard back.

My daughter is 14 now and participates regularly in Special Olympics and has for the last 6 years. She is the most loving, kindest child I know and it makes me sick to think there are those out there who would do their best to spoil that love.

I sincerely hope that this lowlife doesn't get reelected.

By the way, Downs kids have always been highly adoptable. its a shame that they're being aborted. I couldn't imagine not having my daughter in my life.

thanks so much for that post.

Eden

Posted on October 18, 2004 at 8:27 AM

JRob,

You maka a great point...if you believe in abortion on demand, then you are going to get desensitized to aborting babies because they aren't "perfect". And, I hate to say this, because I know rank-and-file Democrats who aren't like this, but the Democratic leaders and activists have become so inflamed with hatred that it's just unbelievable.

Eden,

You're welcome. God bless you and all the other parents of Down Syndrome children who have commented here. Thank you for loving and cherishing those children.

Posted on October 18, 2004 at 12:19 PM
pt Gravatar.com

That ad is vile, even to those of us without much contact with handicapped folks. Simple compassion for the disabled should prohibit anyone from using them in such a way, no matter the intent.

I'm struck by the idea that perhaps one reason God has given us the gentle-disabled described here is to teach us what overflowing, selfless love can be like. Perhaps they are extreme examples of such simplistic love (thus getting vicitmized as per Jinx above), but I'm one of those people who benefit from large, clear examples of virtue.

Thanks for sharing, all of you (san duffa). I think I'll be looking at the disabled a little differently from here...

Posted on October 18, 2004 at 4:12 PM

Hi pt,

I'm struck by the idea that perhaps one reason God has given us the gentle-disabled described here is to teach us what overflowing, selfless love can be like.

That's what I think too..."But God chose what is foolish in the world to shame the wise; God chose what is weak in the world to shame the strong..." -- 1 Corinthians 1:27.

Posted on October 18, 2004 at 7:52 PM



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